Let God be the judge

It is so hard to face the world when you know that all eyes are looking at you

It is so hard to do the things you want to do when you know that people are always looking at your direction, waiting for you to make a mistake and then start pointing fingers or talk behind your back.

Imagine how simple life would be if there weren't so many people who'd rather occupy themselves with your life than focus on their own. I believe we all make mistakes and mistakes are a part of life and it's a way that we all learn and people have no right to judge us because of the mistakes we make. We end up letting go and not doing the things we love and make us happy because we are afraid of what people would think and what they would say. We are afraid to dress up in public because we are scared that people might not like the colour of the dress, the shape of our body etc but who are they to judge?

There is a saying in xhosa that "undibilisela amanzi nje kanti nawakho ayatsholoza" this basically means that when you point a finger at a person you forget how many fingers that are actually pointing at you. We should not judge people or be ready to point out their mistakes, we don't know what the future holds, we might be in the same situation one day. We must let people leave their own lives, make their own mistakes and learn from them. We are afraid to love the people we like so much because we are afraid what others would think.

Ithink it is only fair to let god be the judge because anyways who are we to Judge?......