The value of friendship

when I grew up I had many friends whom I called m best friends because we all used to be in the same class, eat together during break time and hung out together on weekends at the time i thought those were the main principles of friendship.

As I grew older I realised the true meaning of friendship, I realised that a best friend is not just someone you talk too when you are bored, someone you hang out with when you have nothing to do at home. But a best friend is someone who cares to listen, responds and gives you advice. A best friend is someone who won't talk behind your back or boast about your mistakes, she wont get jealous of your achievements but instead will be proud of you and celebrate them with you.friends come and go but you will notice that a best friend will never leave you.

Remember to choose a friend that meets your expertise , a friend who brings out the best in you and always value your friendship.

TRUE FRIENDS ARE PROUD OF EACH OTHER'S ACHIEVEMENTS

 "A real friend is one who walks in when the rest of the world walks out."

It is a poor idea to lie to yourself

Sometimes people think lying to themselves is the best medicine to boost their self confidence but the fact is it is a sign of denial and to be in denial is a sign of weakness because it means that a person is afraid to accept who or what she/he is.

Yes lying is healthy and its natural but a person has to have limits because lying to yourself can only harm you because at the end of the day it is you who you are kidding. sometimes we lie to ourselves because we want to feel good and we want to satisfy our inner selves and yes somewhere some how it gives us strength and confidence to go on but it can be dangerous too but it is always said that the most harmful lies are those that we tell ourselves. by lying to yourself will only get you in a corner that you would struggle to get yourself out of so it is a poor idea to lie to yourself.

there is a difference between lying and dreaming, make sure that you don't confuse your lie to your dreams because sometimes we leave on dream and dreams can come true but if we living a lie then the lies could backfire and start controlling our lives.

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