what is the color of the wind?

People have different views and opinions as to what the color of the wind is. Some say it all depends on the temperature, some even say it is blue but in my opinion I would say the color of the wind is transparent.

Have u ever walked on the streets in a windy day? The only thing u will see are the tress shaking, you'd see their leaves falling off to the ground. People would be holding fast to their belonging and you would know that this is a windy day. There is no clear color of the wind. On a windy day usually the clouds fill up the sky and suddenly becomes colder.

Usually the wind is a sign of rain,because most times after a strong wind it rains. The sky becomes darker and birds will start singing. In my own opinion I think that the color of the wind is transparent the only thing that changes color is the sky on a windy day depending on the temperature of the wind.

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letting go doesn't mean you are giving up

There is a a point in life when you get tired of trying to fix everything and trying to make everyone happy and then you finally decide to quit and let go.

letting go does not mean that you are weak or giving up but it shows you are strong enough to see or realise that the path you have taken is not for you. Our past mistakes seem to control our future because we still keep on holding to them and sometimes we let our minds control our bodies. Letting go can only be easy if u are prepared to let go. holding on to something that you know is not worth holding on is very hurtful, it does not only destroy your heart but can destroy your soul too. Sometimes we have to sacrifice the things we love, we have to let go the people we love go and set them free because there is a good reason they cannot make it to your future. Being around people who don't really serve your interests will not make you any happier, it will only hurt and make it difficult for you to go on with your life.

When you let go and set something or someone free, you have to prepare yourself. allow your heart to grieve, allow yourself to cry. You must also let go of the anger and hatred. this is not a sign of weakness but it's a sign that you are stronger even if you cry everyday There will be a day when you wake up and realise that the tears have dried the anger is gone and this will lead to forgiveness and a forgiving heart is a happy heart. Holding grudges can only be hurtful to the person who is holding the grudge because you will always carry the hurt and the anger that is inside. You will never allow your heart to be free if you are still angry about the past.

Never hold on to something that is not worth you while, let go of the past and forgive and forget. Allow your heart to be free........

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If i were the boss

Being a boss is not as fun and easy as it seems, being a boss means being a leader, a controller, a decision maker and believe me it is the hardest task ever.

Imagine if i could be the boss, it means that i have to act fast, think fast and be able to lead by example. As a young learning Public relations officer i was taught most of these things, i was taught how to communicate and solve a crisis so i think i could be the perfect boss. If i were the boss i would make sure that i get respect from my staff and respect cannot be bought or forced but it is earned. I will make sure that my employees look up to me and see me as the perfect example. I dont have to force them to like me but i will surely go out of my way to please them, by doing this i would expect them to go out of their way to please to please me as well.

My employees will not only know me as the perfect, sweet and caring boss but as a boss who who knows where to draw the line.I will only be kind to my staff if they are also kind to me. I would make sure that I create a peaceful working environment for my staff but that doesn't mean that I would be a "walk over". I do not expect my mployees to give me special treatment, I would interact with them but that does not mean I would socialise with them. In the work place I prefer proffesioanalism, whether I become friends with my employees but they should always know that I am the boss and therefore i should be treated with dignity and respect. If i were the boss I would make sure that my employees work harder and motivate them into going the extra-mile and not only do a job because they have to but to do it with love and passion.

If i were the boss I think I would surely be the perfect boss who always sets up her goals and objectives. A boss who motivates and drives employees to become the best and produce the best.

When will i be free from these rules?

Most people believe that life has no rules but i live the opposite. imagine if i could do whatever i want i think i would be a cheerful person.

My dream is to travel the world and explore things. I want to spread my wings and fly away but at home they decided to make the rules for me and i was forced to obey them. they told me when i was older i can do whatever i want but i am now 22 years old and still living under their rules. I don't think I'll be old enough, to my parents i will always be this little girl who should live to their expectations.At home they told me that when i am 18 i can make my own decisions and my 18th birthday came and they told me when i leave school and go to Tertiary i will be on my own but the time came and yet i am still required to follow the rules i followed 22 years ago. i always ask myself "will i ever grow up". i want to feel free and do whatever i want, i want to go wild and not be scared that i will break the rules, when i am doing something i don't want to do it thinking "what would my parents say". I want them to be proud of me but i need happiness as well and being happy meant doing something that completely satisfy me.

i want to be free, i want to free myself from these rules so that my life could be full of joy and happiness. When the day comes i will be jumping up and down with joy.

Two people come out of a building and into a story.

It is always good to have someone to accompany you when you are going somewhere, wether its a friend, a relative or someone you know.walking alone in a big busy city can be dangerous.

A student was really bored after a long day at Tech and asked her friend to accompany her for some drinks, as they were coming out of the building they were approached by two men. One man offered to give them a lift to the club and they accepted not knowing what the guy's intentions were. after they came out the guys immediately offered to carry their handbags and escorted them to their car. When they got in, there was another guy who was driving, he took out a gun and pointed it at them demanding that they should sleep with them but the other girl screamed so loud that the nearby securities heard the scream and in an instant they were surrounding the car. They called the polica and were charged with attempted rape.

After the incident the two students never trusted anyone and learnt that it is always good to walk with someone when you are going somewhere and that you should never trust strangers that you meet infront of a building.

The life we are living

We never seem to get enough in life, whether its money, love or education we always want more. Rich people although they are said to be rich, they still feel that they need more money to survive. the problem is that they do not appreciate what they have .

We really don't know what we want from this life, people are always complaining that they need love and want someone to love but when a good partner comes then that person is not good enough for them. To me life is a big puzzle that cannot be resolved, i sometimes ask myself "what if we were given instructions on how to lie our lives?". Were we going to suffer from all the greediness and selfishness of this world?. i remember once a person saying to me "life is not a bed of roses" at the time i was young i really never thought about what it meant but as i was growing up i realised that there was more to life. I discovered lots of things, i learnt a lot of things too. life brought me a lot of pain, tears and misery but t also brought me a lot of joy and happiness too.

I realised that life is life and sometimes we cannot control the things that we go through. One thing i know is that life teaches us so many thing bu the most important thing it teaches us is how to be strong.

How hard is it to follow instructions

I am sure most people are struggling to get this right, following instructions is not an easy task unless u are a good listener and get the best instructor. just imagine you are givem a task and inorder for you to have better results you need to follow the instruction, somewhere somehow you will lose focus and end up doing what you were not suppose to do. this will result to "not following instructions".

Being told what to do is not really easy, you need to listen atentively, ask questions, show interest and make sure that you understand what is required from you. after you are clear on what you are suppose to do, make sure that you go through your instructions step by step then following instructions will not be as bad as people think it is. as long as u LISTEN,UNDERSTAND and ASK.